The way she chose to react to all of this told me everything. Aside from pick-up and drop-off communication, we went back to not speaking at all. The whole CPS ordeal would take about 4 days in total and the case would close just 2 days later.
Read MoreShe chose to change her profile picture to a picture of her son from MY wedding! I think my mouth quite literally hit the floor when I discovered this because a few thoughts crossed my mind.
Read MoreI was beginning to see this was all out of my league. This wasn’t like dealing with a normal person. She needed serious therapy. It was quite a realization to see how someone could appear so completely normal, but have all of these underlying, very disturbing traits, beneath the surface.
Read MoreI now knew, based on everything she’d told me, I’d unavoidably walked into the situation at a deficit. There was nothing I could’ve done to make her like me. No matter who it was that stepped into my husband’s life next, they would be the enemy to her and it wasn’t personal.
Read MoreIt had been about a year since she’d found out about her husband’s infidelity. Because they were still together and it had nothing to do with me I never stopped to consider whether or not she was actually happy with him.
Read MoreI didn’t realize it then but it would be soon I start to see she hadn’t truly forgiven a thing. Maybe she was trying… But it was still all there simmering just below the surface. I was her biggest trigger and I begin to wonder if that would ever change.
Read MoreI almost felt like I wasn’t supposed to like her this much. I’d only ever heard such awful things about her. I mean hell, I’d experienced so much at her hands personally. But alas… here I was, almost ready to throw out everything I knew because she just seemed so nice!
Read MoreHow could you with good conscious dance to encourage praise and attempt to set the atmosphere to lead others to Christ when you have your wife on one side and your mistress on the other? To this day my mind is still blown.
Read MoreYou want to know what was even crazier? After our wedding, it would be exactly 9 months later a baby came. A baby and whole conflicting set of problems.
Read MoreThis woman was falling apart. I was literally watching her loose her mind, all good sense and any control she had. This was the “crazy” my husband had been speaking of and here I witnessing it firsthand.
Read MoreIt was now about a month before our wedding was scheduled to take place. A date she still didn’t know. Who could’ve predicted she would take things so far as to try and actually fight me?
Read MoreI could have chalked this all up to coincidence and I wanted to because if all of this were true than it was a reality that was much scarier.
Read MoreHer desperation was showing and she was wearing it like an extravagant dress.
Read MoreUnbeknownst to me, these activities would be the arena in which she displayed and fought every internal insecurity she had; The arena in which every internal power struggle of hers went down.
Read MoreAug 31, 2009 - “I met HER today and it was the most horrible feeling you ever want to experience...” -Ex Wife
Read MoreAfter all the questions and text messages she’d sent, we just KNEW my being there would be a HORRIBLE idea.
Read MoreHis ex wife had keyed his car at their son’s school in a fit of rage. A story he’d told me during one of our late night conversations.
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